Dealership won't send my title work to dmv out of state & I can't register the car or get tags, What do I do?

-Im from Georgia and I recently came to New York to purchase a vehicle from a used dealership. The dealership was supposed to do a state to state transfer and send all of the paper work to the Georgia Tax Commissioner's. I Put $6,000 down on a 2008 dodge charger on march 19, 2011. This is the first vehicle I've ever financed and I thought I had all of the correct paper work to get my tags (I have my bill of sale, temporary registration/tags, warranty , and Insurance). I go to the Georgia tax commissioner's on april 16th for my tags and the customer service told me my vehicle wasn't even showing up in the system, I need to have a copy of the title, and to contact the dealer and have him fax it, she also told me that the copy should have been given to me during the sale. I call the Tim (dealership owner) and ask him "what's going on, why isn't the car showing up in the system" and he's like "that's because you haven't faxed the emissions test to the lien holders". He never told me I needed to do that during the sale! I went ahead and faxed the emissions and waited about a week... still my car isn't showing up in the system. the Tax commissioner's told me this time I would just have to deal with te dealer at this point they can't issue me tags for a car that's not showing up in the system. Two months pass as I consistently keep trying to call Tim and the finance company to see what I can do to speed up the process. Every time I call the dealership Tim's secretary tells me either he's not in, he will return my call, or he's off for the day. The finance company basically keep telling me it's nothing they can do I have to go straight to the dealer and get whatever I need, they're not very helpful but they continue to take auto payments out of my account every month for a car I can't legally drive! I came all the way back up to NY on June 30th to speak with Tim face to face & when I get there he tells me my tags are on the way from georgia to his dealership and they should be there by next week (every time I call the georgia tax commissioners they tell me the vehicle isn't in the system). He seemed nervous and really pushy for me to leave he's like "Amy these type of things take time when you're doing a state to state transfer", I asked him if I could at least get another 30 day tag and he said "No, it's illegal in the state of New York to issue a second thirty day tag". Is he lying? I'm basically stuck here in NY waiting on my tags to be delivered. What can I do to get the tags? I went to the police to ask and they told me the only thing I can do is take it to civil court. All I really want to do is get the tags what can I simply do to get this man to do his Job?